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Question #1:

I don't know what to do...?

I am so lost right now, I can't believe I'm asking random strangers for advice, but I need all the input I can get. So, I met my boyfriend 3 years ago in Milwaukee. I am from there, and he was living there for college. We started dating and it was everything I ever dreamed of. He is the most amazing man I have ever met. After about 6 months of dating, he couldn't afford to go to school there anymore and had to move back to Missouri. I loved him and didn't want things to end, so I moved to Missouri in August 2008. Things have been amazing with us ever since, except that I hate it here. I have a good job, and plan on marrying this man, but I can't stand to be away from my family anymore. We are a very close family, and on top of all that, I have a 2 year old nephew who's life I am missing. I can't go home very often to visit because of my job. I told him this past April that I couldn't take it anymore and I really would love for us to move back. He told me that if that is what I needed, he would make the sacrifice and move. It's now September and we have tentatively been planning on moving to Milwaukee in December. In recent weeks, I can tell he really does not want to move, and his parents are threatening to completely cut him off (they help with his car payment, cell phone, and insurance). He is 24 and almost done with his associates degree and his field is booming in Milwaukee. I know he could find a job, sure it would be tough financially for awhile, but it would not be impossible to make ends meet. The problem I'm having is I feel like he is not going to move with me. I feel that he thinks I will change my mind and stay here, or try to prolong the move. Long distance is out of the question, we both did that in our previous relationships and it turned out horribly. I love him, I know he loves me, but I feel like we are completely trapped. I don't want him to be unhappy and have to leave his hometown, but me being here is making me resent him. What do I do? How can we work through this?
Kailey,
I understand where you are coming from. But what you need to understand is that I did sacrifice. I left my home, my family, all my friends to move here for him. I had never lived on my own before, I went times without money for food so I could be here with him. I have been trying to make it work for over 2 years, and have been miserable in every part of my life except for having him. He will be finished with school in December, that is why we were going to wait until then to move.

Question #2:

whats better round 2 lol?

ok so since edit fails and i kinda need a quick answer planning to buy the pc tommorow im gona post a 2nd whats better desktop
here they are there all priced at 380-450
1st system i asked about earlier
AMD Home User Office System 555 3.2Ghz
A Full Home User System Complete With:

Sata DVDRW Drive to Burn Your Music and Video
1Gig DDR2 800Mhz
Asrock N68-GS MotherBoard
AMD Phenom Dual Core 3.2Ghz 555
250Gig Sata Hard Drive
Case With a 450Watt Psu
Windows 7 Home Premium 32Bit
that is 370£

or
2nd system
•Midtower ATX case
•AMD™ Athlon 250 X2 Dual Core
•2GB DDR3 Ram
•250GB Hard Drive
•DVD-RW Drive
•400W PSU
•AMD™ 760G Motherboard
•ATI Radeon™ 3000 Onboard Graphics
•Windows 7 Home Premium 32bit

Or
CPU: 2050 - NEW! Intel® Core 2 Duo E7600
Motherboard: 4087 - NEW! Asus P5G41C-M LX
Memory: 5027 - 4GB DDR3 1333mhz (1x 2GB)
Hard Drives: 6004 - 500GB S-ATAII 3.0Gb/s
Optical Drive: 7003 - 22x DVD±RW DL S-ATA
Graphics card: 8047 - NVIDIA GeForce GT 240 1GB
Sound card: 10001 - Onboard 7.1 Audio
Keyboard and mouse: 14001 - Keyboard, mouse and speakers
Monitors: 15001 - 19' Widescreen LCD
Case: 17016 - Piano Black ATX
srry kinda failed on 3rd system heres

4GB DDR3 1333mhz (2x 2GB)
thats the ram :P
thnx van frank for answer if u didnt notice the 3rd system actually has asus motherboard and 4gb ram^^

the 3rd system is winning the battle :)
thnx again bloodmoon i see your a active helper here :)
and it will be 3rd system i think

if anyone wants to know were i baught this system its from

dinopc.com(english site shop at london)

Question #3:

bought a guineapig from a pet store and she is prego.... help!!?

Got my piggy July 20th from a pet store, on the cage it said she was born June 20th.... in the cage there was 2 moms and over a dozen baby's. I had no plans on getting one as I have a male at home already but this lil lady needed me as she was being chewed by the others (her ears tell her story as they are missing chunks outta them) I got her home and she lives beside my male they have played with each other but that's it! as I don't want baby's and she is still too young. Well you would of thought I would of noticed sooner but I didn't. SHE IS PREGNANT!!! I'm guessing I bought her pregnant. I had Guinea pig when I was little and they had baby's but my parents did it all. I been looking up information online but all I seem to get r these sites with scary negative info saying DON'T BREED THEM. Well this wasn't by choice and I obviously have to deal with it.
Her nipples are huge.
baby's are totally pocking outta her sides when they move.
She is eating and drinking lot's
she is always laying down even to eat and drink

Any info on what I should watch for? or how I know how far along she is?
btw when I said she lives beside my male pig I mean in seperate cages.

Question #4:

how can i be myself again?

In the past I've had a lot to deal with, but I've always continued to pull through up until February '09 when something happened that made me stop wanting to pull through any more, so I just gave in as everything was getting on top of me and I couldn't handle it anymore. So I've been sitting at home depressed basically ever since. A few months ago I decided it was time to change as I'm coming up 17 and I've got nothing planned for my life yet. But now that I'm socialising again, and building my life back together, I've realised I'm even more fragile before (before I was socially anxious and I had panic attacks at the slightest thing, but now I'm even worse).. And because of it, I can't be me, I used to make people laugh and be confident even though I was scared. But now it's like I've forgotten how to do that. How do I get that person I used to be back?

Question #5:

I got engaged, but my maid of honor does not seem happy should I talk to her about it?

My life has been pretty complicated, however things are finally looking up. My fiance and I have been planning to get married for some time now, however He officially proposed to me, but when I went to break the news to my friend and maid of honor, she did not say Congratulations or anything like that. Everyone else responded with enthusiasm, but up until now she has not.

She is also planning on getting married in December, and I am her maid of honor, I spent 3 days at her home and planned her wedding, I gave her the best ideas and supported her with everything. She ruined my birthday last year, and we stopped talking, but we began talking again. I am her daughter's god mother as well.

I genuinely feel bad and bothered about the situation, I don't want to ruin our friendship because I hate animosity, but we are currently on yahoo messenger and I am tempted to say "I don't think you realize but you haven't said congratulations to me...lol"

I just think that if I don't say anything, I am not going to put out the effort that I was putting out for her wedding anymore.
Initially we were engaged I just didn't have a ring, we were just planning to get married. So she was my maid of honor from then. So technically the only thing that has changed is the fact that I got a ring.
Thanks guys, I agree with your opinions, I will just let it go. I guess I feel hurt because I always try to be Happy for others no matter what. It come naturally.

Question #6:

Anyone who owns a Rottweiler... Are they good dogs?

I just got my 5th! dog.. yes 5th!

I rescued him from a guy who had 3 that let his dogs breed. He gave him to me free so I took him. My fiance is not too thrilled since I have a 9 week old APBT mix, and 2 other adult dogs.. plus his 3 year old Blue Heeler.

My fiance is telling me that he dislikes Rottweilers and is very nervous about owning one. He told me that his dad owned 2 and 1 of them wound up biting someone and he went to jail!.. Also, he told his dad that I just got a rottie pup, and his dad told him to make me get rid of it because it will be nothing but problems and i will get fined for it biting one day.

So, now my fiance is sorta mad at me because I want to keep the puppy while he wants me to find it a new home... And the funny thing is, I keep catching him cuddling and talking with/to the new puppy!!!.

Also, one of my adult dogs is a Rottweiler/Chow mix and she has been NO problems at all.

So, is a Pure Bred Rottweiler a BAD dog??? I take care of all my dogs perfectly fine, they all have their shots, my adult dogs just got their rabies shot,they all eat a good food (Evo),lots of toys and treats. Lots of attention... He keeps telling me I really gotta work with this new puppy if i plan on keeping him.. which I know that! He says Rottweilers have a worse rep than APBT's.. AGH! I am so gonna prove him wrong about Rotties.

Any advice?

also, this pup doesn't have a docked tail.. so some pure Rottie's have long tails? Can I get it cut now? or is he too old?

thanks!

Question #7:

Is this a good plan for losing weight?

Is this a good plan for losing weight?
I want to lose 30-40 pounds by next June.
6:30 AM-Get up, do about 20 or 30 crunches
7:00 AM-Eat a Fiber One 90 calorie granola bar for breakfast, plus an apple.
11:00- Lunch (my school's time, not mine) Ham, cheese, and cucumber sandwich, plus some kind of side (Baked\Toasted chips, etc)
3:30- Come home. Eat either an apple or one of those bowls of peaches in light syrup.
4:00 Do more crunches.
5-6:00- Go outside and do gymnastics with my sister. (somersaults, handstands, etc.)
6:30-Dinner. Some kind of meat or pasta.
After dinner- more gymnastics.
8:30- 9:00- Bedtime.

I might ride my bike, too. Will I reach my goal?

Question #8:

I may sound really selfish but how do I make people stop buying us things we dont want?

Hiya.
First of all I just want to explain that due to finances my boyfriend and I now live with his parents. We are now financially stable/doing well that we dont pay rent and bills and we just pay for our car and some money to his parents for 'keeping' us. We live separately to them. We eat separately, we spend our evenings separately. I see them every day and at times I do go and sit with them during the evening and just talk. I get along really well with them and they are very excited about becoming grandparents.
We have just re-decorated our bedroom and are half way through our babies room. We had everything planned out according to our budget and I had picked everything to match. Maybe a little OTT, but this is my first time. I am not spending too much money or over-buying, just being sensible for the things we do need and was so excited to buy them all.

Its just that we came home to find that the room had been completely filled with furniture. (A lovely gesture and SO SO grateful) but BRIGHT yellow furniture. It looks awful.

When they asked what we needed my boyfriend and I put together a list of the best value things we could find and asked for anything on that list - nursery furniture was not on the list. Am I wrong to feel a little bit ugh about it? I am so grateful and I do appreciate that they would spend their money on our baby - his mum was so excited about us seeing what they had bought. But its awful?

Am I overreacting because its my first and just wanted everything perfect? :( x

Question #9:

Hillary's "Plan Colombia"- Iraq's over, so should the USA take the war to Latin America?

Should they move the war closer to home?

Question #10:

Staying alone in hospital during labor?

I am 2 inch dilated. Doc are going to induce me on Thursday but on night before they will use some medication for ripening the cervix. Doc said I might start labor in night since I am dilated. Our plan was my husband will stay with other two kids at home in night and drop them to school/aftercare in morning and come to hospital. Doc said you might deliver in night. After I asked her again she said it's just guess and I don't know.

So my question to anybody who was induced for third baby. If you were dilated before inducing? How long your labor lasted? We have few friends, but can we manage on our own? Have anybody given birth in hospital with no family member or friend with them?

Thank you

Question #11:

Running and building muscle...?

I'm planning on joining the Marine Corps. after high school. Right now, I'm only a junior and right now I'm more focused on school and getting myself physically fit by next year.

I'm 165lbs, 5' 10".
23% Body Fat

My brother, who is going to help me weight train, told me that I should just weight train because it converts my current fat to muscle, and it'll be less work than burning off all the fat, then building up muscle.

I also wanted to work on my running because my goal by November is to run 3 miles straight without stopping, under 20 minutes. BUT I heard that running burns muscles?

How should I balance all of this out?

(My current plan was to use up my gym time at school by running on a treadmill 20 minutes a day, then adding 5 min every other day. Then come home, work on P90x and situps/pushups, then homework, then go to the gym at night with my brother to weight train)

Question #12:

How will I Deal With a Guy Playing It "cool" 10 Points Best Answer!?

ive been talking to this guy on facebook for a few weeks now. and he asked for my number we have been texting etc. last weekend i seen him out we were chatting for a bit but i was in a rush home. he told a mutual friend he likes me and he told me himself. but he also told this mutual friend he is playing it "cool" with me. and i find sometimes he's extreamly flirty and then he would act not intrested? he's giving me mixed signal's but i want him to do the chasing insted of me? im going out on saturday night and so is he? we plan to meet up? what will i doo? any suggestions??
And i Am Showing Intrest!

Question #13:

How will i go about this guy playing it "cool"?

Question #14:

What do you think of my poem?

So, I wrote this poem after having a violent dream!
What do y'all think?

[The Escape]

Dearest Harp was bon to a country of the free
He was convinced that he was in the land happiness
But great abuse he one day did see
And he grew in great fear of the society’s darkness

“Oh what a frightening place”
Do not fret for your life
“I wish myself I could erase”
It will be honorable strife

Harp’s father born and raised on a farm
His mother under the wing of the church
He easily did fool others with his charm
But with “Satanic” feelings he was cursed

Every day he lay in bed or sat at school
Thinking of how he would tell them
For any secret would ruin his yule
But he knew that his parents would easily condemn

The news was haunted by articles of them
His parents thought of his fellow beings like trash
They sat thanking God that their son was no Fem
And the sweat down Harp’s neck did crash

“I have to leave this dreadful place”
Harp convinced himself beyond a doubt
“They will never accept me with grace”
He decided that at night he would fade out

Your happiness is jeopardized and you have tried
You want you parents acceptance more than anything
But if you told them they would have cried
Escape, Harp, to relieve them of the burden they’re carrying

The moon was shining bright and huge in the sky
Harp looked at his parents one last time during dinner
And that night for freedom he did fly
For this was not the place for him to linger

Run like the wind! Harp and let the freedom take you whole
Harp, you have escaped from the persecution of the world
Your life from now on will be nothing but a ball
Into the loving arms of those like you you will be hurled

For you are the shining beacon and a story
For other youths like you to follow
To follow you into freedom’s glory
For you shall never be shunned below

That first night of freedom was cold and lonely
But you found a back ally that was welcoming enough
You threw out a blanket to make it rather homey
But of course the start would be quite tough

The next morning you smelled of cat urine and sadness
But you held no regrets for what you had done
You were one step closer to your absolute happiness
But soon your battle will be finally won

The first day was a blur and hot in search of refuge
You found a bar and club that was open wide
You had no I.D to show the man so huge
But you insisted you were on their side

Harp snuck around the back and just as night fell was in!
“I have arrived” he told himself with glee and pride
He was now with those people just like him

He was with the people who would forever stand at his side
“Hey,” Harp said as he found himself in front a man
He seemed nice enough and trustworthy
So, he would ask this man to help him plan

He gave good enough advice on a place of refuge

It was far away and the man told him he’d guide Harp
The night went on and the man grew rather drunk
He found another person to have under the moon so sharp
With Harp they left for the man’s home deep in the city’s funk

“The guest room” the man gave Harp keys to take
“I’ll take to your refuge in the morning, Harp”
For a certain reason a smile Harp had to fake
He saw the found man under the moon so sharp

Harp didn’t trust the man that he did not know
He guest room thinking “I have arrived”
In the blanket’s clean soft glow
Into the guest bathroom Harp did strive

Clean and tired he retired for the night
Until a few hours passed and he awakened
He could hear from the main house a fight!
It was between his friend and man founded

In less than a flash Harp was on his feet
Into the main house he did race
And blood curling screams were there to greet
Blood splattered across his friend’s face

The man founded was standing over his friend
He spun around to look to Harp
And then Harp did now comprehend
That he was about to get something sharp

What came next was one violent sprint
Across the large home of Harp’s friend
Running now from a knife’s sharp glint
Into dark halls in such a house grand

Harp had lost the man for only a few moments
Harp slammed himself into the bath
Nearby he heard the found man’s torments
And he saw a razor on the soap’s lath

Harp approached with dismay
He looked at it like an alien machine
Things shouldn’t have been this way
But of worries he might be clean

The grand escape was what he found
Escape from your problems, Harp
Of blood you’ll first lose a pound
It isn’t all that painfully sharp

He lay with God in only minutes
He was gone from the Earth filled with sorrow
Freedom is thine, Harp enjoy its limits
For you there is a brighter tomorrow

The founded man came to the bath’s door
He stepped inside with steady breath
Slipped on the blood upon the floor
And met with an angry justifying death

Question #15:

Got a BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Now I just don't know how to tell my mum and dad.
Might sound a little bit strange asking this but I'm living at home at the moment but an afford to get my own place in the next couple of weeks and i couldn't be happier.
They live separately and i live with my dad and he's very very strict. He has always said I would have to get rid of the baby if i got pregnant but i am not doing that.
I have planned to move out and then tell my mum and dad and then they can choose if they want to speak to me again or not.
Any suggestions on how to tell them?
Over the phone or face to face (risk getting slapped)
I tested the day of my mssed period and the day after but negatives, not even a faint line showed.
Tested again a week later on the tues and got a positive but still kinda faint. tested again the morning after (today) and got a dark positive.
I am 21 and been with my bf for 5 years next month.
Thank-you for all your answers
XxX

Question #16:

How do I get a guy I like to add me on Skype?

I've been seeing this guy for a little over a month. We've been on 5 dates and even spent several weekends together. Last Wednesday he left to go back to college in Idaho and I am back here at home in Oregon cause I'm already a college graduate. We haven't spoken since he's left cause he's had to travel, been with family, plus he's moving in to his college apartment very soon. I don't want to bother him by contacting, plus we agreed that we were in a dating relationship, but we were seeing other people yet we plan on seeing each other at Christmas. Him and I have talked about how we would keep in touch, which was through e-mail, fb, some calls, and especially Skype. This guy has asked in the past if I have a webcam, I told him no, but I was planning to get one since he wants to Skype.
Today I saw on his Facebook the following status from him: "I got a new camera and loving it with the ability to use Skype!!!" How do I get this guy to add me on Skype?

Question #17:

I'm 20 and trying to leave home?

I have no money just a car, my mom and step dad are abusive and wouldn't sign anything letting me go back to college this semester so I want to leave asap. Tmrw I'm looking for a full time job anywhere hiring near my school in Chattanooga (45 min) away so I will be around people I've know for a few years now. There letting me stay until I find a job and a room in a house to rent out ($400-500 w/ utilities) but I'm afraid my parents are going to call the police or something even tho my mom said do what i please. But their sick like that. When I find a job I plan to live in my car until I get paid. Good advise please I need out of here

Question #18:

But my dog has never done anything like it before!?

No, nothing to do with biting or aggression.

I just took Bugsy (2 year old Staffy Bull Terrier) for his usual walk over the fields & woods.
I usually let him off the leash for a good run, and today he appeared to find something of great interest. He was sniffing it and rubbing his face into it, and rolling around on his back, and wouldn't come when called (not unknown but unusual - he is getting much better at recall).
Anyway, I walko ver to see what it is he has found, he is still wriggling & rolling around on his back & side, and covered with mud.

Or at least, I thought it was mud at first.... until I nudge him away and see a big lump of the foulest-smelling fox turd.

He was absolutely covered in it.

Usually I am quite proud of walking him, because he is quite well behaved (walks to heel, sits & 'downs' on command at the kerb, etc) and he is by far the best-behaved Staffy in the neighbourhood.

But walking home today, with him covered in this foul-smelling filth... was the "Walk of Shame". lol

Anyway - the question.... What is it that goes through a dogs mind, when he comes across a lump of foul-smelling fox turd, that makes the dog think to himself "Yeah - that's what I want to smell like, I'll rub it aaaaaalll over..."

And to make matters worse, when I get home and plan to give him a bath - there is no hot water!!!
The immersion heater doesn't come on until later.

Question #19:

Should I go with her to tell her parents?

My...girlfriend I guess you could say is pregnant. Yes the baby is mine. She's a senior in high school this year(she's 18---she failed 9th). I graduated earlier this year(I'm 18 also).

We had started dating but when she introduced me to her parents,they immediately didn't like me. Admittedly I've done some things as a kid/teen that I knew I shouldn't have been doing and ended up getting arrested. I think that was the main reason why they don't/didn't like me. Her Dad even called me a delinquent. I tried to explain that that stuff happened years ago(I was 13/14 when it happened and 17 when I met them) and that I had changed. They didn't care. So they made their daughter break up with me. We started seeing each other secretly and one thing just lead to another and things happened and we weren't very smart/responsible. She plans on telling her parents that she's pregnant and I'm the Dad. I'm not sure if I should go with her or not when she tells them though. I want to because I'm not trying to run away from the situation and I want them to know I'm going to take care of their daughter and our baby but at the same time I don't want any problems with her parents. She has no other choice but to tell them because she still lives at home since she's in school.

Do you think I should go?
The "I guess" part went to her being my girlfriend. Nothing's really "official" as far as our relationship is concerned. We both know she's pregnant for sure. She's seen a doctor.

Question #20:

Need help with this movie?

There were 7 I think- college friends who rent a cabin and they invite a friend from high school for dinner and their friend was a jerk and they realized he was very racist and they killed him and buried him- and then had a decision to bring bigoted and prejudiced people for dinner and kill them- there was one time they invited a young girl who thought having sex before marriage was horrible but one of the girls saved her and made her leave their cabin and go home. in the end they invited the biggest racist of all to dinner and he caught onto their plan but he "talked" them out of it and made them realize that all humans have a right to their own opinions and when the friends returned to the dinner table they all died because he put the poison in their cups that they meant to kill him with

when they killed each person they would bury them in the backyard and plant tomatoes there and would feed the tomatoes in sauce etc ... to their guests they would kill
thank you pj- that is it I forgot Cameron Diaz was in it
alan and david- get a life

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